Staying Focused During the Job Search (Without Getting Attached to the Outcome)

The later stages of a job search can bring a mix of excitement, nerves, and pressure.

I recently had a final round of interviews for a role I’m really excited about. I showed up, did my best, and left proud of the effort I gave even though, as always, the outcome is out of my hands.

If you're job searching too, I want to share something that’s helped me stay grounded - especially in moments like these.

When you’re eager for a new role, it’s easy to become attached to the outcome. But when you're attached, you’re focusing on something you can’t control. When you're unattached, you focus on doing your best and then you let go.

Not letting go? It’s like keeping your hand on a hot stove - painful and unproductive.

The hardest part isn’t just the interview itself.

It’s staying fully present, performing your best, and remaining unattached at the same time.

If you're in a similar spot, here’s what’s helped me the most:

Remind yourself that the experience itself is valuable - no matter the outcome.

Today’s experience validated for me that the kind of role I’m looking for does exist, the need is real, and my skills are valuable.

That might sound obvious, but during this search (more than ever) I’ve had interviews where it felt like there was a disconnect between what I offer and what companies were looking for.

When that happens, it’s easy to start questioning your value.

If you're feeling that way, you’re not alone. 

But it doesn’t mean your skills aren’t valuable - it just means you haven’t found the right match yet.

Every interview gives you something to learn, to build on, and to take into your next step.

Stay focused on what is in your control:

• Applying consistently to roles you’re a good match for
• Preparing thoughtfully for interviews
• Building and nurturing relationships
• Learning new skills and sharing what you’re learning

Trust that all of that effort is building momentum even when you can’t see it yet.

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